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You know what they say"What goes around comes around"....
She`ll get what`s coming to her eventually.....
Really? I mean, I haven't even contacted immigration yet, but if they send her back to Australia, that would be hilarious.
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Cheaters are assholes...
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cant rememebr if i have posted in here yet, but...
my now ex had a problem with cheating she would meet a guy, get to know him then break up with me for as long as it took her to f him then come home technically it aitn cheating but to me it was cause she would always comehome with the i love you's and the i am sorry bs once cheater always a cheater. either your wit ha guy and you aitn interested in others or your one of those girls that dotn mind stringing along multiple guys
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Once a cheater, always a cheater....depends on if you're motivated enough to change. Some people are, some aren't.

I've cheated and I've been cheated on. I never got caught, per se, but that was when I was young and didn't value commitment. Now that I'm older, I'd never want to put someone I love through that kind of pain. So for me, once a cheater, not always a cheater.
As for what is and isn't cheating, I'd say cheating is something you can't tell your SO about. Whether it's a kiss or full on sex, if you have to lie or deceive, it's cheating. Some people are fine with swinging, so in that case, sex wouldn't be cheating. It's not a one size fits all deal.
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I said no, people change. I do not believe in absolutes. Always is forever.
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I find it interesting how attitudes about cheating change with the situation. My ex-boyfriend's wife left him and later confessed that it was because she had been having an affair for the last year of their marriage. He was devastated. It took him over a year to pull himself together. Fast forward another year, and he's dating a woman who admits to having cheating on HER husband. This time, he thinks it's ok, cuz her husband deserved it! Consequently, because she's a cheater, she doesn't trust him! WTF???
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My ex BIL was a serial cheater, left my sister with 5 kids while using her as a punchbag, got married again then walked out on his wife after he'd been cheating and knocking her about when she had a Downs syndrome daughter. He's now Billy no mates, stuck in a crappy flat drinking himself to death with 2 ex wives & 6 kids who hate him, he's done a pretty good job of blowing his life up
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