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Old 29th July 2008
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I seamed to find the ones that can't stay loyal, don't know why, but i do. i cought my wife starting somthing on the side twice before we were married, should have been a clue, but i cought her before anything happened and that b$%#H ended up screwing her boss ... now don't get me wrong he helped me out in the end, but i still can't promise he'll be walking aroung normal if i see him around. it just goes to show ya that no matter what you do for them they still are who they are and that'll never change.
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My story is similar to others here:

I found out that my wife (now ex-wife) was cheating on me with a good friend and next door neighbor when she was tired of my asking for sex all of the time. She was supposed to be helping him with his reading skills and she was just getting "dick"tation. She had a panic attach after she told me and started breaking and throwing things all over the house. She started hyperventillating and I called 911 (my first mistake) for help. They showed up and put me in handcuffs and started asking her if I had done the damage in the house or had hit her? She cause $3000 in damage with her tirade. After she came back from the hospital she was ready to leave with the neighbor and start a new life. Of course he had no intention of going anywhere with her. The big mistake he made was thinking that his wife would never find out about them. I made him fess-up to his wife and then man-up to mine. My ex went into a depression and started confessing about things I had no idea about. We spent the rest of the next two days playing true confessions. Then we decided to try and make a go of it. four therapist all had the same conclusion; I was rally trying and she was manic-depressive and needed meds. She refused to seek treatment and was surprised when I filed for divorce a year later. She never contested the divorce and let me have both of the kids (manic-depressive, remember) since she needed to be free to "find herself".
That was 15 years ago and I have met a wonderful woman and been married to her for 11 years. I don't have any contact with her, we live 600 mile apart, and that is the best for both of us. I hear that she still blames me for her problems and I don't care.
That's my story. It could have had a better outcome for the first wife but the second got the best of this situation.
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Yea, we were going through a rough time and had a big fight. She calls it a revenge !!!! We have a kid together and worked it out eventually. There isn't a day that goes by that I'm not hurt by it though.
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me and my wife got this agrement, if one of us ever gets an urge to cheat that is soo strong we can't resist we need to telll the other and get a divorce to get the enevitable out of the way. so far she always does it for me and i know i still do it for her.

as far as past relationships....i have never cheated or been cheated on.......that i know of
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Been cheated on a few times. Kind of cheated as I was still in a relationship that was rapidly going down hill when I met someone else and saw him for the last few days of the current relationship
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OH Yeah! My Children's mother cheated on me with my best friend. I suspected it but never really wanted to know. My oldest committed suicide in 94, I was devastated. Wife blamed me for his depression and death. Took a week off work and rode my 72 XLCH from Chicago to Oceanside CA t visit with my sister. Somewhere in Baha, sis & I finished our last beer and she says "So you guys are OK now?" Huh? Wife confided in my sister she screwed my best friend and said we were OK and working it out. Made my plan. Wait for my youngest to turn 18 and give here the big D. At the time I was self employed and needed the house for my business (bedroom office, garage warehouse.) TOTALLY pisser her off . . . I got to keep the house and my business. It cost me over $160,000 to say good bye. Knowing how mercenary she could be, I sold my 72 XLCH a year before I filed. Divorce was final the day before our 30th anniversary in 2000. Here it is, 2019 and I have done a total restoration on a 1977 XLH that I put 2205 miles on. My Wife (of 11 years) has an 04 1200 Custom and my daily rider 07 Dyna with 99,000 on it and it's all a distant memory. LIFE IS GOOD!
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do you know why divorce costs so much????

because its worth it!
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I married twice and both wives were narcissistic cheating whores. I finally got wise and have been happily single for the last 8 years and kicked several 'leeches in waiting' to the curb. It seems all the good smart ones in my age bracket are also leery about entering 'serious' relationships.
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My wife went away with my best friend; F,.# I miss him.
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ive been cheated on, i have cheated.
in the end its just sex.
they were not virgins when i met them.
meh what ever.
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