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THANKS GUYS... DAY 1 DONE. ill start slow with my goal for no more tell the end of the month. then ill see how i feel about drinking. today i actually thought what the hell, its gross... just like how i feel about those people that smoke and stink and they dont even know it becuase they have been smelling like crap for years and dont know the differance. so ill try my best and let yall know how it goes. ill probably lose 15 lbs from no beer calories and no drunkin muchies. now my work outs will have an effect. again thanks guys for the info.

CONGRATS i have been clean 1 day at a time since november 1982. it will always be one day at a time. but well worth the effort. LIFE IS WORTH REMEMBERING.. ride safe.
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Quit on your own terms, not because your facing jail and the loss of your liscense. Once alcohol takes control small problems start and that leads to bigger and worse sheet.
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the quick story.

age 19 started drink when ever i could. ( once a month)

age 21 ( twice a month over all that year)

age 22 ( not that much)

age 23 ( drunk 3 time a week) drinking when i do house chorus and when i have bad days, work on stuff my art stuff...... ect.

i dont smoke, gamble or have any other addictions. i basickly like to jam out loud to my fav tunes and drink to them as i do things around the house or just sit and relax to tunes and get numb. i like the way my mind flows with the music and it feels like a concert every time i do it. BUT I FEEL myself slipping to a bad side i dont want to be on.

im 23 been in healthcare for close to 6 years years and work with drunks every day. and dont want that to come me.

please give me any easy or helpful hints to stop this problem i have before it becomes a big problem.
well... i went from drinking 3 times a week to once in the last 9 days. its only been 9 days since i started to quite but i think thats a good start. also the one time i did drink it wasn't fun. just lost the fun. thanks again guys for the info and help. ill let you know how it goes in time.
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Respect for you acknowledging you have a problem, that's the most important step.
Respect for those responding in such a helpfull way, goes to show you're not alone outthere.
You can do it. Hang in there, road will be long and winding, but that's a big plus for any Sporty rider.
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Ya gotta control your 'demons' just like that twitchy right hand on the throttle....
a little bit is ok, too much brings nothin' but trouble....
You've recognized the problem..and taken steps to correct it...More Power To Ya!
Hang in there, it will only get better !
Ride Safe....
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I have been clean and sober since Feb 10 2001 and I can honestly tell you it is about a LOT more than just drinking. I would definately reccomend going to AA or NA meetings get a sponser and work the 12 steps. I had quit before but a dry drunk is still a drunk and one miserable SOB I can tell you all about it. Working the steps has transformed my life and the idea of getting drunk or high is not even slightly appealing. I feel to good about myself and life in general to want a drink or a joint and don't neeed it to relax or unwind. I get along better with my family, coworkers, customers (even the A holes), I am not angry an uptight anymore and I sleep good at night.
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I grew up in my dads two bars he had, I seen the worst of people. My mother was a nasty drunk. Came home from school on day and me and my dads stuff was on the curb, that was one of the last times ive talked to her, thats 30yrs ago now and she is still alive. Being drunk has a terrible affect on the people around you, that can have long term affects on you and them. If I have a six pack in a Years time thats alot, I like to be in control of my enviroment and also set a good example for my kids.
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I have been clean and sober since Feb 10 2001 and I can honestly tell you it is about a LOT more than just drinking. I would definately reccomend going to AA or NA meetings get a sponser and work the 12 steps. I had quit before but a dry drunk is still a drunk and one miserable SOB I can tell you all about it. Working the steps has transformed my life and the idea of getting drunk or high is not even slightly appealing. I feel to good about myself and life in general to want a drink or a joint and don't neeed it to relax or unwind. I get along better with my family, coworkers, customers (even the A holes), I am not angry an uptight anymore and I sleep good at night.

i was looking at the 12 steps on line. im not sure if they were the real ones but it seams if your not religious at all like me, the steps wont work as smoothly.
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My advice would be to stop drinking. Give it a rest. In a few years you might find that you can drink casually and never have a problem. Or you might not. The really nasty addictions tend to start young, so if you feel you might be on that path, you probably are.
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