threesomes

[XLFREAK]

would you take part in a threesome if the opportunity came up?? No need to reply in this thread, but you can take part of this poll.:D

[Takingabreak]

It's ok, I will reply.

No I would not.
It is hard enough to Please one Woman properly, two would just be all about gettin' off, not Love making.

And a second guy is just Ghey, and who need the competition anyway.

My girl has never asked for another to join, I guess even after 22 year, I still do it right and she don't want to share.

[mountbkr]

Probably if I had a bigger seat I mean where would the 3rd person sit?:laugh Handle bars would be a possiblity. :roflblack

[ted]

If the 4th doesn't show up, we go ahead and tee off. If he shows late, he can catch up. Oh, you aren't talking golf?
:roflblack :roflblack :roflblack
Ted

[XLFREAK]

OF couurse it depends on who, no question there.

...and I'd highly recommend it.
:smoke

[jamman]

Yippee.. Yeah you know it... spank that baby....

[669Sprink]

Done that with two women in S.C. in a van in front of a bar...hella good time for all :laugh :smoke....

[jack82]

........Threesomes.??................I've had thousands of em...........



.......And always with the same three..........




.......Me,myself and I........:p

[lagerdrinker]

so much pressure trying to please one woman. ide love to try two but there is no satisfaction guarantee...for them. im sure ide enjoy it.

[rottenralph]

Tried to work that out with a GF once and ended up getting socked in the balls when her friend got close to my equipment, guess she changed her mind.

[ZanexGt]

Probably if I had a bigger seat I mean where would the 3rd person sit?:laugh Handle bars would be a possiblity. :roflblack

POST OF THE DAY! That's just hillarious!

:clap

[CustomBlue]

I think it is every man's fantacy to be with 2 women.Doesn't meen everyone would actully do it though.I have heard a few times that married couples who have tried 3-somes had led to divorce nearly 99% of the time.

[Moved On]

I have heard a few times that married couples who have tried 3-somes had led to divorce nearly 99% of the time.Who said anything about involving the wife in the threesome :roflblack

Gazza

[sportyblue]

I think you need to define threesome....could be 2 guys one female......2 females 1 guy.......3 guys ......3 females.......two sheep 1 guy.......2 guys 1 sheep......1 female sheep 1 male sheep 1 guy......the list goes on and on........clarity needed............................................ ..........

[lagerdrinker]

I think you need to define threesome....could be 2 guys one female......2 females 1 guy.......3 guys ......3 females.......two sheep 1 guy.......2 guys 1 sheep......1 female sheep 1 male sheep 1 guy......the list goes on and on........clarity needed............................................ ..........


why are sheep even on your list? sounds like they may be a possiblity to you:frownthre :roflblack :roflblack :roflblack

[CntryFun]

Not sure if I could, but I don't see why I wouldn't try as long as it wasn't w/ anyone I was in a relationship w/.
No way I'd risk a relationship over it, even if she wanted to at the time.

[shotgun46]

sheep !!! thats baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad !!! 2 wimmen & 1 guy could be fun that happend to a buddy and the 2 wimmen keep comming back !! he is 47 and 2 wimmen are 30s both hot !! ps the guy would be me !!!!!

[sportyblue]

why are sheep even on your list? sounds like they may be a possiblity to you:frownthre :roflblack :roflblack :roflblack

As a female biker who has lived in Montaaaaaana, I thought they were on every man's list. *surprised look * you mean they're not ???? :roflblack :roflblack :roflblack

[kiltbill]

I think it is every man's fantacy to be with 2 women.Doesn't meen everyone would actully do it though.I have heard a few times that married couples who have tried 3-somes had led to divorce nearly 99% of the time.

You have to do it before Marriage! :doh

Oh and it was sooooooooooooo good............... One time only but hey I still have my memories! ;)



AND NO THERE WERE NO SHEEP INVOLVED! :gun :gun :gun :gun :gun :gun

I still have the pics to prove it!

[Lynk]

I waited almost 24 years, before I lost my virginity in a threesome. It was the day after Christmas, with two women. Alas, since I would never participate in one again, I voted "no."

I believe in intimacy with one other person. If my partner wishes to role-play with me, then that's cool; however, it would be known that it was in the spirit of fun. With the introduction of another, lines become faded, and intimacy is in jeopardy.

To each his own. If you wish to participate, I am no man to stand in your way.

[bud095]

As a female biker who has lived in Montaaaaaana, I thought they were on every man's list. *surprised look * you mean they're not ???? :roflblack :roflblack :roflblack nope ,its just not my thing.maybe im wierd or something.:dunno :dunno

[TiBaal89]

Just when I start to fool myself into thinking maybe my life is interesting... I read a thread like this. :smoke

[XLFREAK]

Who said anything about involving the wife in the threesome :roflblack

GazzaHaha! There ya go!
:banana

[whispanic]

Sure why not...

If your single...HELL YEAH!

If your taken...its got to be a VERY VERY VERY well planned "sitchiation" cause the ladies may say they are into it (the idea), but like Ralph testified to...thier minds can change!

Adios

[sportyblue]

nope ,its just not my thing.maybe im wierd or something.:dunno :dunno

Ok Ok I'll come clean.....the front rim on my bike is rusted out and am waiting for a new rim to come in.......hence I am sitting around bored on a beautiful day like today with nothing better to do than mess with you guys..............................my stand on this issue .........nope never had a threesome.......never will.......just not me.... each to their own though.............................:smoke :smoke :smoke

[Takingabreak]

You have to do it before Marriage! :doh

Oh and it was sooooooooooooo good............... One time only but hey I still have my memories! ;)



AND NO THERE WERE NO SHEEP INVOLVED! :gun :gun :gun :gun :gun :gun

I still have the pics to prove it!


Bill, it is one thing to say you have picture, it is quite another to post these alleged pictures.

[Lynk]

Bill, it is one thing to say you have picture, it is quite another to post these alleged pictures.

If it's a picture of Bill, I think I'll pass. :p

[883rnh]

I guess I am old fashion raised Catholic, and I don't share! Anyhow too many VD's out there in the word. i have a stong belief in monogamy.
If other people do that type of stuck know yourself out and have fun.

[Chip]

Threesome could be 3 pigs. And they're gonna squeal!!!!!!

[Lucifer]

I say roll with it! I like many things about this life, and two or more women at the same time is definately very likeable! I call it multi-tasking!
Dave
Ride to Live!

[XLFREAK]

Yes indeed...Had me a time or two and it was always a real good time. If a man can survive the d-ck s-cking contest between both females, then he can take HOLD HIS OWN THE REST OF THE WAY!!! A little Jack Daniels helps too...

Loco
So. Cal.

[kadmf]

I've gotta say yes, depending on who it is, having participated in one, it is one of the highlights of my sexual life! i'm def. hoping for another one!!

[eric123]

Three-somes are awesome...

[Lucifer]

Loco,
The ol JD definately is a plus. Who needs date rape drugs? That stuff is a guaranteed leg spreader for $20! Got two girls workin on me right now. They say I'm most deserving of what they are gonna throw my way. Hope it's a good thing. One even has a new 1200C with all the options. Trying to get her to come play on the forum. She's not into PC's. We have a mutual friend who is trying to get us all together. Patience is a virtue. Fortunately I caught the friend on a good night and I'm guessing she blabbed to the other girl. Think she just got out of the cage though. Hope they ain't too rough!
Dave
Ride to Live!

[H@mbone!]

Well if it was two good looking chicks then hell yeah count me in...but chicks only.

[Homarr]

I think you need to define threesome...

Threesome: two girls and one guy.

One girl and two guys is a sausage sampler.

One guy and more than two girls is a love boat.

One girl and more than two guys is a gangbang.

Two and two, a foursome.

More than that, call it an orgy. Or you may have the honor of naming it yourself :D

[Bartman]

I always take 2 women to bed with me....that way when I fall asleep, they have someone to talk to.:laugh

[gwcrim]

The naysayers sure are vocal and the rest of us don't seem to want to admit it. But looking at the numbers just doesn't jive with the posts.

Me? I'll do dang near anything once.

[wabiker]

..... I tried once... But She was allergic to Wool.

[XLFREAK]

Loco,
The ol JD definately is a plus. Who needs date rape drugs? That stuff is a guaranteed leg spreader for $20! Got two girls workin on me right now. They say I'm most deserving of what they are gonna throw my way. Hope it's a good thing. One even has a new 1200C with all the options. Trying to get her to come play on the forum. She's not into PC's. We have a mutual friend who is trying to get us all together. Patience is a virtue. Fortunately I caught the friend on a good night and I'm guessing she blabbed to the other girl. Think she just got out of the cage though. Hope they ain't too rough!
Dave
Ride to Live!

Two hungry tigresses can do a number on ya (Suck ya off and get ya out of the way for a bit) while they continue on LOL!!!

JD avoids such situations...

Respects,

Loco
So. Cal.

[raven28690]

have tried a threesome twice in the past but im not sure i'd be able to try it again.
as the songs says "im not as good as i once was"

im married now anyhow and i definitly dont want my sack socked

[sportsterrific]

I bring up the topic every once in a while with my g/f. She quickly kills my buzz by saying she'll do it, but with me and another guy, before we can do it with her and another girl. I told her I don't want another guy's weiner anywhere near me, so that's that for that!

[wabiker]

I bring up the topic every once in a while with my g/f. She quickly kills my buzz by saying she'll do it, but with me and another guy, before we can do it with her and another girl. I told her I don't want another guy's weiner anywhere near me, so that's that for that!

....Its all about planning, Tactical Strategy. If done properly the weiners stay at the opposite ends:banana :banana :banana

[MidWest XL]

I bring up the topic every once in a while with my g/f. She quickly kills my buzz by saying she'll do it, but with me and another guy, before we can do it with her and another girl. I told her I don't want another guy's weiner anywhere near me, so that's that for that!

Ahh, The dreaded "Crossing Swords" scenario.

I saw an episode of Entourage where Johnny Drama and Turtle had an incedent. It was funny as hell because I didn't expect it.
Johnny & Turtle came down for breakfast and Johnny was acting weird. Eric & Vinnie asked him what was up and Turtle told them that they accidently crossed swords during a 3-some last night. Drama was visibly disturbed by it and told Turtle that they agreed to never talk about it and he didn't want Turtle to even look at him. Turtle was OK with it and figured it was just a "hazard of war".

I'm still laughing as I write this - still funny.

[Homarr]

Ahh, The dreaded "Crossing Swords" scenario.

I saw an episode of Entourage where Johnny Drama and Turtle had an incedent. It was funny as hell because I didn't expect it.
Johnny & Turtle came down for breakfast and Johnny was acting weird. Eric & Vinnie asked him what was up and Turtle told them that they accidently crossed swords during a 3-some last night. Drama was visibly disturbed by it and told Turtle that they agreed to never talk about it and he didn't want Turtle to even look at him. Turtle was OK with it and figured it was just a "hazard of war".

I'm still laughing as I write this - still funny.
And I can't stop laughing as I read it! Ha Ha Ha :roflblack

It's easy to keep 'em separated, the girl can either lay on her back or get on all fours. Stay on opposite ends, guys. No fancy stuff, not even cowgirl with an over the shoulder blower. I mean, cock coming from over your shoulder and in your face, that's even worse than sword crossing.

[whispanic]

Crossing swords can be tough...but "friendly fire"...well that...thats just not right.

Never cross the tube and always maintain proper weapon control at all times to these sitchiations.

Adios

[milmat1]

I am trying to remember ???

Can't say for sure ????

I thought I did this once,But it turned out I was drunk and it was just one fat chick !!! More rolls than a bakery !!!

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

How about foursomes?


:nosee

[Bugsy Siegel]

...and it was just one fat chick !!! More rolls than a bakery !!!

ROFL, I think I took her out to dinner once, tried to shut the door on my truck and her 'posterior' was so wide, I had to lean on the door to get it closed!

[robert]

Did it once with my GF and her best friend, then caught hell the next day for paying too much attention to the friend. I'd do it again, but only if I was single.

[Mohntonite]

I over heard an electrician telling his wife when he was younger that he had the chance to take on two twenty year old hotties. She said he wasn't wired for 220. haha

[Rascal]

Syphlis is nothing to clap about!

[Rascal]

so much pressure trying to please one woman. ide love to try two but there is no satisfaction guarantee...for them. im sure ide enjoy it.


I'd agree with that as far as myself. Just because I tell them both that they had just as much time as I did, would not mean they were totally fulfilled. :rolleyes:

[southern goddess]

:smoke And have pictures to remember it by!.....and a happy Husband!

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

:smoke And have pictures to remember it by!.....and a happy Husband!

:clap :clap :clap

[Streak70]

I'll second that!:banana

Four is fun, too!:banana :banana :banana :banana

:clap :clap :clap

[gwcrim]

:smoke And have pictures to remember it by!.....and a happy Husband!

Now there's MY kinda woman!!!

[wabiker]

Uhhhhh.... Pics??? Did sumbody say they have PICS...??? :geek

[southern goddess]

YEP! :flasher

[PlanB]

I WAS BORN FOR THREESOMES!

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v387/mediocre1/aaargh.jpg

[southern goddess]

:rolllaugh That pic is too funny!

[Wildchild]

Why stop at 3? Been there, done that and I'll be repeating it. 'Nuff said. :D

[southern goddess]

Ain't life grand!?! We're planning on doing Little Sturgis in Kentucky this year - I highly recommend it!:smoke

[Wildchild]

We've thought about Little Sturgis, there's just so many parties, so little time. Maybe this year. We do Wetzelland near Van Wert, Ohio every July and the (Chillicothe, Ohio) EasyRider Rodeo every year. Also do Daytona Biketoberfest (camp) and Myrtle Beach bike week annually. Parties everywhere! Spread the love....

[wormjello]

It depends on the sheep.

[tcspannerwrench]

Ain't life grand!?! We're planning on doing Little Sturgis in Kentucky this year - I highly recommend it!:smoke

I went to little sturgis last year :banana it was great :clap

[whispanic]

I would like to take this time to let SG and Wildchild know that we have a little section in this here forum call SUPER OF TOPIC.

Its the "Redclouds" of the XLF.

Feel free to post your pretzel pictures there.

Thanks you and have a nice day.

[Rascal]

I would like to take this time to let SG and Wildchild know that we have a little section in this here forum call SUPER OF TOPIC.

Its the "Redclouds" of the XLF.

Feel free to post your pretzel pictures there.

Thanks you and have a nice day.

What whispanic said...BRING ON THE PICS!

[Simon]

When I was single, and a few years younger, I had several experiences with two women, but that was when I was single, and before there were any STDs that penicillin could not take care of. One of the things the "Free Love" generation discovered was that nothing is truly free of some sort of cost. In those days, it was all "let it all hang out and no strings attached." Now, my wife and I have discussed the possibility of a threesome with another woman, because she is curious, but there are a few things to consider, and not just the fear of STDs. Safe sex probably can handle most of that, but one wants to avoid entanglements, possible neurotic types, psycho stalkers and what have you. And I/we wouldn't want to jump into bed with just anyone. There would have to be some level of compatibility, at least. As one matures, one becomes more cautious, I suppose. Does anyone have any thoughts on any of that?

[iced-t]

I had my ex bring home a friend twice (both times was an extra chick). Another time I was with a girl and a buddy in his hot tub, it started going that way until she made me take her off into a private room. And my favorite story was a few days prior to New Years this past year. A few buddies and I got tuned up, well my buddy and I picked up two girls and brought 'em back to my place... long story short, I wound up in my bedroom with both of the girls while my buddy crashed on my couch... alone. So yeah, I voted "yes"!

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

When I was single, and a few years younger, I had several experiences with two women, but that was when I was single, and before there were any STDs that penicillin could not take care of. One of the things the "Free Love" generation discovered was that nothing is truly free of some sort of cost. In those days, it was all "let it all hang out and no strings attached." Now, my wife and I have discussed the possibility of a threesome with another woman, because she is curious, but there are a few things to consider, and not just the fear of STDs. Safe sex probably can handle most of that, but one wants to avoid entanglements, possible neurotic types, psycho stalkers and what have you. And I/we wouldn't want to jump into bed with just anyone. There would have to be some level of compatibility, at least. As one matures, one becomes more cautious, I suppose. Does anyone have any thoughts on any of that?


LOTS of thoughts on that.

There are still clubs around where people go to meet others of like mindedness, both around the country and in the caribean (like Hedo).

Just make sure you're both on the same page. Talk a lot about it etc.

And when it comes to the other, make sure she is on the same page too.

[gwcrim]

Kev sounds like a man with a bit of experience in this field. ;)

[Notabiker]

and after the third threesome, I ask my husband would you want that.

Him: of course

Me: Okay just bring home the guy but he has to have a little somethin' going on either face, bod or shlong.

Him: OH NO, not that way, I meant you and another lady, your choice of course honey. I can't do it with another man in the bed,

ME: oh well, baby it's a two way street, here.

Thus no threesomes till he can compromise

[Hot Rod Sporty]

So many things to consider.....

If I were unattached......and both women were attractive....HELL YEAH!

If I were unattached.....with a girl I wasn't particularly attached to and a buddy.....Maybe.

In my current situation.....ONLY with another attractive woman. (But I don't think my GF would go for that!)

[wabiker]

Im lucky... my Left hand dont care if I share with the Right hand...

[dsonoma]

It depends. If I'm in a meaningful relationship like the one I'm in now, (Happily Married) I would not have a threesome. It's just wrong in my opinion and honestly its adultery even if all three people are cool with it.

However, if I was single and not in a meaningful relationship, I can't say that I would turn it down. Even though it is still wrong in God's eyes because it is sex outside of marriage, I can't honestly say that sex with two women at the same time is something that would turn down if I was single.

[cantolina]

My second wife was totally into any 3 ways...
She was pretty nutz..

Ended up bangin my Best Friend, and a number of women I don't even know....

And dammit, I never got any VIDEO!!! :laugh

[Hot Rod Sporty]

Ended up bangin my Best Friend ...


Sure hope he's not still your best friend.....:frownthre

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

It depends. If I'm in a meaningful relationship like the one I'm in now, (Happily Married) I would not have a threesome. It's just wrong in my opinion and honestly its adultery even if all three people are cool with it.

However, if I was single and not in a meaningful relationship, I can't say that I would turn it down. Even though it is still wrong in God's eyes because it is sex outside of marriage, I can't honestly say that sex with two women at the same time is something that would turn down if I was single.

Dude, your reasoning is all kinds of f-up.

Sounds like Catholic reasoning.

Like it's venial if you do it when single (wrong but I can still go to heaven), but it's mortal if you do it when married.

:doh

[Hot Rod Sporty]

Dude, your reasoning is all kinds of f-up.

Sounds like Catholic reasoning.

Like it's venial if you do it when single (wrong but I can still go to heaven), but it's mortal if you do it when married.

:doh

:doh

How do you REALLY feel about it Kev!

:smoke

[Hot Rod Sporty]

[QUOTE=Kev M;661226]Dude, your reasoning is all kinds of f-up.

Sounds like Catholic reasoning.

Like it's venial if you do it when single (wrong but I can still go to heaven), but it's mortal if you do it when married.

:doh

How do you REALLY feel about it Kev!

:rolleyes:

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

:doh

How do you REALLY feel about it Kev!

:smoke

Like a recovering Catholic... :doh :banadanc

[Hot Rod Sporty]

Like a recovering Catholic... :doh :banadanc



:laugh I've always loved that term, "RECOVERING CATHOLIC" :laugh

[dsonoma]

Dude, your reasoning is all kinds of f-up.

Sounds like Catholic reasoning.

Like it's venial if you do it when single (wrong but I can still go to heaven), but it's mortal if you do it when married.

:doh

Not Catholic. I'm Christian. One in the same I guess, but that's another topic.

The reason I wouldn't do it if I was in a serious relationship is because I obviously have made a commitment with that person...So why would I chose to bring someone else into the relationship? That would be breaking our oath to each other.

Single I would do it because......why not?

Call it Catholic reasoning if you want to, but sex with someone other than your spouse while married and sex without being married (fornication) is considered a sin according to the bible. I admit that if I was not married and had a threesome, that I would be sinning just as well as having a threesome while married.

I'm not worried about going to heaven Kev. That's a done deal. I'll be there...no matter what I do or what you say or what anybody else says or does.

All kinds of f-up? Maybe, but at least I'm honest about it. Everyone has their own opinion. This is mine. :cheers

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

Het DS,

I respect honest.

But according to your book there sex outside of marriage is a sin too no?

So seems to me like you're picking a choosing from the sin menu.

I'm a Christian myself, but I don't believe in anything CLOSE to a literal interpretation of that book.

Ride safe,

Kev

PS - I respect the hell out of honest!

[jaws]

Het DS,

I respect honest.

But according to your book there sex outside of marriage is a sin too no?

So seems to me like you're picking a choosing from the sin menu.

I'm a Christian myself, but I don't believe in anything CLOSE to a literal interpretation of that book.

Ride safe,

Kev

PS - I respect the hell out of honest!


We had friends who were heavily into the whole scene. Told us you can only do it with tons of mutual respect, trust and love etc etc. They are divorced now. Guess it took more than they thought.

Almost seems like the idea is cooler than the real deal...but then again.... :)

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

We had friends who were heavily into the whole scene. Told us you can only do it with tons of mutual respect, trust and love etc etc. They are divorced now. Guess it took more than they thought.

Almost seems like the idea is cooler than the real deal...but then again.... :)

So are more than 50% of all married couples. I'll take a SWAG and say that the vast majority of those divorced couples WEREN'T participating in threesomes.

There's a lot more to a good marriage than sex.

There's a lot more to good sex than a marriage.

I hope to maintain the best of both.

But it all starts with my partner (my wife).

Kev

[jaws]

So are more than 50% of all married couples. I'll take a SWAG and say that the vast majority of those divorced couples WEREN'T participating in threesomes.

There's a lot more to a good marriage than sex.

There's a lot more to good sex than a marriage.

I hope to maintain the best of both.

But it all starts with my partner (my wife).

Kev


Ok, but what's the divorce rate of couples involved? Dunno, that's the only way to compare.

For the record, Not trying to pass judgement here. I say hats off to the both of you to be that free and secure.

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

Ok, but what's the divorce rate of couples involved? Dunno, that's the only way to compare.


Doubt you could ever get that data reliably.

Statistics are well, statistics.

But when better than half of all marriages fail, it's time to think outside the box a little.

I know I'm not going to the average married couple for advice. ;) (nor necessarily the swinging one either).

[jaws]

But when better than half of all marriages fail, it's time to think outside the box a little.



Yup... it's intriguing to say the least.

[gwcrim]

But when better than half of all marriages fail, it's time to think outside the box a little.

Exactly. Marriage isn't easy to begin with. Some folks are naturally promiscuous and that's one BIG problem to marriage. If two sluts can marry and enjoy their sluttitude together, well then everyone wins!!!

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

Exactly. Marriage isn't easy to begin with. Some folks are naturally promiscuous and that's one BIG problem to marriage. If two sluts can marry and enjoy their sluttitude together, well then everyone wins!!!

LOL, at the same time there are plenty of married couples with lots of incompatabilities and insecurities. I'm not saying this sorta thing is for them.

I suspect that as long as our society remains puritanical about sex, it's for the minority for sure, but still.

Ya gotta look at the big picture.

K

[dsonoma]

Het DS,

I respect honest.

But according to your book there sex outside of marriage is a sin too no?

So seems to me like you're picking a choosing from the sin menu.



I thought that's what I said. "Fornication (sex between people who aren't married) is sin too."

Here's what I typed:
(sex with someone other than your spouse while married and sex without being married (fornication) is considered a sin according to the bible)

WTF?

I think we all pick and chose our sins don't we?

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

I thought that's what I said. "Fornication (sex between people who aren't married) is sin too."

Here's what I typed:
(sex with someone other than your spouse while married and sex without being married (fornication) is considered a sin according to the bible)

WTF?



My point is that you said you'd do one, but not the other. But you agree both are "wrong"

If that isn't a puzzling hypocricy, I don't know what is.


I think we all pick and chose our sins don't we?

That's a cop out.

I can't think of a major organized religion that "allows" you to order one from column A and one from column B. Without failure they expect adherence to their specific set of rules, all of them, without exception.

[gwcrim]

Religion is the cause of most of the world's problems. What a shame!

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

Religion is the cause of most of the world's problems. What a shame!

Going way off topic, but it is and it isn't.

I think organized religion is just fallible, like the rest of us.

There are a LOT of REALLY good ideas in most religions. Practical stuff, generous, humane etc.

The more you look at MOST of it, the more you see the same basic themes of loving and caring for each other. I like to call it the doctrine of "don't be a dick" of treating people like YOU want to be treated, like you want your family treated, of self-sacrifice etc.

I think THESE are the important points.

Sex however is one of those things that humans have been getting all screwed up from day one. Probably because it's such a basic and powerful instinct.

But we mystify it and put in on a pedastal and make it forbidden.

When the bible was written there were some DAMN GOOD reasons for people to be careful about it. Lack of birth control being one.

Hell there are damn good reasons for people to be careful about it today, HIV being JUST one of em.

But the Catholic church sunk their teeth into it centuries ago as a way to control their priests and their faithful.

So much of what they or other organized religions say and do seem so contradictory to the basic concepts of loving and caring for one another that they come off hypocritical.

And once that happens, you have a hard time believing anything else that they say.

Kev

[gwcrim]

Yeah.... the religion comment was sort of off topic. But as you pointed out, it sure does have a lot to do with our society's screwed up views on something so basic as SEX.

What ever two (or more) consenting adults do with their reproductive organs is no one else's business.

[jaws]

Going way off topic, but it is and it isn't.

I think organized religion is just fallible, like the rest of us.

There are a LOT of REALLY good ideas in most religions. Practical stuff, generous, humane etc.

The more you look at MOST of it, the more you see the same basic themes of loving and caring for each other. I like to call it the doctrine of "don't be a dick" of treating people like YOU want to be treated, like you want your family treated, of self-sacrifice etc.

I think THESE are the important points.

Sex however is one of those things that humans have been getting all screwed up from day one. Probably because it's such a basic and powerful instinct.

But we mystify it and put in on a pedastal and make it forbidden.

When the bible was written there were some DAMN GOOD reasons for people to be careful about it. Lack of birth control being one.

Hell there are damn good reasons for people to be careful about it today, HIV being JUST one of em.

But the Catholic church sunk their teeth into it centuries ago as a way to control their priests and their faithful.

So much of what they or other organized religions say and do seem so contradictory to the basic concepts of loving and caring for one another that they come off hypocritical.

And once that happens, you have a hard time believing anything else that they say.

Kev

HA! we live in a country where it's ok to see on every show how people get shot, knifed or beat to a pulp but god forbid you see a boob...that should tell you something right there.

[Hot Rod Sporty]

Going way off topic, but it is and it isn't.

I think organized religion is just fallible, like the rest of us.

There are a LOT of REALLY good ideas in most religions. Practical stuff, generous, humane etc.

The more you look at MOST of it, the more you see the same basic themes of loving and caring for each other. I like to call it the doctrine of "don't be a dick" of treating people like YOU want to be treated, like you want your family treated, of self-sacrifice etc.

I think THESE are the important points.

Sex however is one of those things that humans have been getting all screwed up from day one. Probably because it's such a basic and powerful instinct.

But we mystify it and put in on a pedastal and make it forbidden.

When the bible was written there were some DAMN GOOD reasons for people to be careful about it. Lack of birth control being one.

Hell there are damn good reasons for people to be careful about it today, HIV being JUST one of em.

But the Catholic church sunk their teeth into it centuries ago as a way to control their priests and their faithful.

So much of what they or other organized religions say and do seem so contradictory to the basic concepts of loving and caring for one another that they come off hypocritical.

And once that happens, you have a hard time believing anything else that they say.

Kev


Well said IMO.:clap

ORGANIZED religion is a MAN-MADE entity. Spirituality is within each individual. That's why I don't adhere to an organized religion. That's why so many describe themselves as a "recovering (insert your religion here)". Dogma only creates reasons for people to 'sin'. Morals have to be decided by each being, not by a committee of men (or women) and then handed down as edicts.

If you haven't seen the movie "Dogma" check it out. My favorite line in the movie is when Chris Rock, the 13th apostle who is unknown because he's black, is talking about the things that religious people have done that piss Jesus off is "all the shit people do in his name". Check it out, I don't want to ruin it for anyone...:D

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

HA! we live in a country where it's ok to see on every show how people get shot, knifed or beat to a pulp but god forbid you see a boob...that should tell you something right there.

BINGO!

I think a portion of the problem with today's marriages (in this country) is DEATH TV!

We've got

CSI
CSI MIAMI
CSI NY
Crossing Jordan
Law & Order
Law & Order SVU
Medium

and how many other TV shows that are ABOUT MURDER, DEATH, RAPE etc.

Who the hell wants to watch those then go make love to your wife????

And on the flip side we say no no no and forbid our kids from doing what comes naturally.

I'm not condoning love ins or anything, but jeeez, naked is pretty natural.

You see people freaking out about a mother breast-feeding her baby.

JEEEZ man, that's natural stuff!

I can't imagine God wants us to be so STUPID about stuff.

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

Well said IMO.:clap

ORGANIZED religion is a MAN-MADE entity. Spirituality is within each individual. That's why I don't adhere to an organized religion. That's why so many describe themselves as a "recovering (insert your religion here)". Dogma only creates reasons for people to 'sin'. Morals have to be decided by each being, not by a committee of men (or women) and then handed down as edicts.

If you haven't seen the movie "Dogma" check it out. My favorite line in the movie is when Chris Rock, the 13th apostle who is unknown because he's black, is talking about the things that religious people have done that piss Jesus off is "all the shit people do in his name". Check it out, I don't want to ruin it for anyone...:D


OMG that's an AWESOME movie!

"I'm a FREAKIN' Demon" :laugh

[dsonoma]

My point is that you said you'd do one, but not the other. But you agree both are "wrong"

If that isn't a puzzling hypocricy, I don't know what is.

Yeah, I guess you've labeled me correctly in this sense. I have done something that I knew was wrong and still think is wrong. Been called worse.



That's a cop out.

I can't think of a major organized religion that "allows" you to order one from column A and one from column B. Without failure they expect adherence to their specific set of rules, all of them, without exception.

Whatever, everybody who claims to be a part of any religion do things that they know is wrong....PERIOD.

This talk doesn't belong in this thread...we've gotten way off topic.

I'm a hypocrit and a sinner. I have made this very clear and KEV has called me on it.

Ride on gentlemen!!! :tour :chop

"I could sure use a beer"

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

Hey I didn't say I haven't sinned too.

I've fallen short of my own (and what I suspect are God's expectations) too.

But I know what I BELIEVE is right or wrong.

and if asked the question whether or not I'd do something that I believe is wrong, I'd answer NO. I might fall short of my expectation when the time came, but I wouldn't plan to fail.

You seemed to say that you'd plan to fail in some circumstances.

That subtle difference was all I was calling you on.

Ride safe,

K

[gwcrim]

So back on topic.......

Just dip me in honey and throw me into the lesbian pit!

[Hot Rod Sporty]

So back on topic.......

Just dip me in honey and throw me into the lesbian pit!



I'd love that too....except for one thing.....the lesbians would kick your ASS if you touched them or one of their girls.....:boxing

I'm just sayin'....

[gwcrim]

Oh but a man can dream, can't he?

[Hot Rod Sporty]

Oh but a man can dream, can't he?

DON'T WE ALL!:banadanc

[Uncledaddy]

So back on topic.......

Just dip me in honey and throw me into the lesbian pit!


Ummm... lesbians don't like men.

Bisexuals?

[Hot Rod Sporty]

Ummm... lesbians don't like men.

Bisexuals?

:love1

HMMMMMMM.......................................... .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. ....................I'm sorry, what were we talking about?

We are talking about bisexual WOMEN, right?

[761000sp]

been there done that a couple of times but no more to old for that LOL

[whispanic]

My Girlfriends girlfriend sent me this pic last night...


You could say we have an "arrangement".

Adios

[Hot Rod Sporty]

My Girlfriends girlfriend sent me this pic last night...


You could say we have an "arrangement".

Adios



What kind of 'arrangement'?:clap

[Nicco61]

So many folks worried about pressure...WTF????
Any time i have sex one of us leaves happy.

BTW to answer you question yes I have in the past and will again in the future.

[Hot Rod Sporty]

So many folks worried about pressure...WTF????
Any time i have sex one of us leaves happy.

BTW to answer you question yes I have in the past and will again in the future.




ONLY ONE OF YOU?:laugh :laugh :laugh :laugh :laugh :laugh

What about the other two?:rolleyes:

[el jinete fantasma]

I'm not very good at multi-tasking, so...

[Bruce]

Got to do it once when i was younger. It was fun, but its 'hard' to keep up with two girls.

[wabiker]

Got to do it once when i was younger. It was fun, but its 'hard' to keep up with two girls.
Keep up!?!? Hell thats why there are TWO of 'em... they can talk to each other while you take a BREAK:banana

[dardoonk]

depends on the sex of the third party

Umm... doesn't it depend on the sex of the second and third party? For instance, two guys are out & pick up a girl, she would be the third party, but he's the second party and I would have to say "NO".

Only way I'd do it is if I were the only guy, otherwise, there's just too much risk of "crossing swords" so to speak.

[wabiker]

Heh heh heh...yea ...ya gotta watch out for that Pork Sword Bar-b-Que...!!

[flatlander]

Not too much work. They do a lot of the work for you:banana , and for each other.:wonderlan

[XLFREAK]

thats always been one of my fantasy's but havent had the chance .

other fantasy's

a midget

a black girl

a oriental girl

heck maybe i could get a black-oriental mix midget and that would just take care of all at once .

[towlie]

Dude I would dig it, with 2 ladies of course. It would be the best, awesomest, most exellent bitchin' 20 - 30 seconds of my life prolly. :smoke

Seriously I saw 2 very hot girls getting down with each other a few years ago in a locked bed room at a party. Just me and those two. I was in a relationship at the time so I just watched for oh about 30 minutes!!!! Shouldn't have even done that though. Those memories are as vivid in my mind to this day as the events that created them were to my senses the night I bore witness. Dayum. :clap

[scubabike420]

Yippie for me. So Saturday my wife and I are getting pretty drunk at a local bar. We go back to this girls house with another couple. Before too long clothing is off and I get to see my wife for the first time making out with another girl. Not just a playfull smooch. An all out naked body against naked body, hands grabbing everything lustful make out. The night only got better. We've been married for 14 years and have often talked about it, but this was our first swinging encounter.

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

Yippie for me. So Saturday my wife and I are getting pretty drunk at a local bar. We go back to this girls house with another couple. Before too long clothing is off and I get to see my wife for the first time making out with another girl. Not just a playfull smooch. An all out naked body against naked body, hands grabbing everything lustful make out. The night only got better. We've been married for 14 years and have often talked about it, but this was our first swinging encounter.

I know you want to jump from the rooftops shouting about it, that's kinda natural.

You're also gonna replay it in your mind about 100 times in the next week.

Enjoy it, as it can be a great stimulant for you and your wife.

K

[scubabike420]

I'm expecting a lot of mixed feelings about it over the next few weeks and not just from her either. We'll talk it through and I think in the end we'll both want to do it again. Surprising thing is the four horsemen of the apocolypse weren't unleashed and the sun came up like it always does.

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

I'm expecting a lot of mixed feelings about it over the next few weeks and not just from her either. We'll talk it through and I think in the end we'll both want to do it again. Surprising thing is the four horsemen of the apocolypse weren't unleashed and the sun came up like it always does.

totally natural.

Just keep the channels of communication open.

Ya know, pay attention to each other's wants/needs...

Like everything with relationships, you gotta have balance/happiness on both sides or it can get wonky.

[Hot Rod Sporty]

totally natural.

Just keep the channels of communication open.

Ya know, pay attention to each other's wants/needs...

Like everything with relationships, you gotta have balance/happiness on both sides or it can get wonky.




Kev M.....Swinger Counselor... :doh

:smoke

...or are you recruiting? :laugh

[Moved On / My Own Choice]

Kev M.....Swinger Counselor... :doh

:smoke

...or are you recruiting? :laugh

No need to recruit here... :p

Just passing on some thoughts....

:wonderlan

[scubabike420]

Friction last night. We were talking about the events of Saturday night and I mentioned that a couple we met while on vacation in Cancun a fews years ago were swingers. About a half hour later she is riding me about why I didn't tell her at the time. She says "they were hot". I think its safe to say that my wife is OK with it and is looking forward to our next experience. I've always been a perv but my wife's catholic up bringing has aparently been keeping back some major sexual desire. Not anymore.

[sportysrock]

Yes, me and two St. Paulie girls.

:p

[XLFREAK]

totally natural.

Just keep the channels of communication open.

Ya know, pay attention to each other's wants/needs...

Like everything with relationships, you gotta have balance/happiness on both sides or it can get wonky.
I've also found not to be "over eager" about it. It should be an extra on top of your relationship and not the main focus of your relationship.

[Gone]

ive had 3 so far, and im only 22 :D

[jimmyess333]

I was lucky enough to date a chick that was Bi.
I'll never have a wingman like that again.

[humpbackbob]

Done yhat once. Way too confusing. Like flying a military jet when you are licenced for a Cesna. Just a hell of a lot of buttons to fiddle with.:buddies :banana :banadanc :clap :dunno :danceele :banapurp :bump :banarasta :brocoli :banapart

[beth_anne]

Would I or have I? The more the merrier!

[Babygirl]

I would, but only if I were attracted to the other girl (or guy!). I can't see myself doing it just to humour my man. It would have to be with someone we don't know who is discreet, never a friend. Too much baggage.

[wabiker]

I would, but only if I were attracted to the other girl (or guy!). I can't see myself doing it just to humour my man. It would have to be with someone we don't know who is discreet, never a friend. Too much baggage.
Hmmmmm....weLLLL.... ya dont know me :smoke

[Babygirl]

Hmmmmm....weLLLL.... ya dont know me :smoke

You trying to tell me you'd have a threesome with another guy? What if the other guy was Bi? Even if he didn't lay a hand on you?

Huh? Huh? :banana

[wabiker]

You trying to tell me you'd have a threesome with another guy? What if the other guy was Bi? Even if he didn't lay a hand on you?

Huh? Huh? :banana
Sure, BUT 2 rules:
1) He keeps his attention on HER...
2) No Crossing of the Swords...
:bananinj :D :bananinj

[jimmyess333]

A very good time if you are secure and attentive.
It helps if the chick you know better is bi. It takes some of the pressure off of you.
Would do it again if the participants are as cool as before.

[Babygirl]

Sure, BUT 2 rules:
1) He keeps his attention on HER...
2) No Crossing of the Swords...
:bananinj :D :bananinj

Oh, well I guess that disqualifies you then. Sword-crossing is kinda hot. :love1

[wabiker]

Oh, well I guess that disqualifies you then. Sword-crossing is kinda hot. :love1

Not if your the one brandishing the Sword:D
Of course the The Only possible exception being D-P

[rdgzoe]

........Threesomes.??................I've had thousands of em...........



.......And always with the same three..........




.......Me,myself and I........:p

I was going to say do me and my two hands count:p

[Babygirl]

Not if your the one brandishing the Sword:D
Of course the The Only possible exception being D-P

I wouldn't call that sword-crossing. More like ships passing in the night.:D

[cafe_dave]

Why do I have urge to go sailing??

[jrossty]

Haha, I just read through this whole thread... and let me just say...


I once shared a hot-tub "experience" with two girls who I'd never met before that night. Needless to say, it was a fun party :D

[06sportie]

oo yeah every tuesday and on thursday the games start

[Shamdog]

Have done it back when I was single.

[jason43]

Me and the wife have had a few, to tell you the truth, I enjoy seeing her get it on with the other girl more than I like doing anything with the 'third' myself.

We've never had a problem with jealousy or anything like that because we talk about how different things make us feel, etc. If things go too far we have the common sense to talk about it afterwards.

You know something weird though? I felt strange about kissing the other girls more than having sex with them.

Its all about your relationship and your opinions about sex. Me and the wife think that sex can be seperate from love. One is physical and the other is emotional. Overall though, as I seem to be just writing random crap that comes to mind, I think its made our relationship more fun. Its our little bad thing we get to do occasionally to spice things up and we do it together so no one is left out.

I'd say it was manditory that you have a partner that is into the sex of the people you are hooking up with, otherwise, its going to be all about you, and when that happens, sleep with a bulletproof vest on your ballsack, cause eventually, she's coming to cut them off:D

[bat123]

Withdrawn 2008/9/07

[daggar rider]

i have before in my crazier days, now i'm married so no chance of that ever happening

[jason43]

i have before in my crazier days, now i'm married so no chance of that ever happening

How long you been married?

Cause it sure can spice things up if your relationship is really solid and you dont have jealousy issues...

[chasespeed]

My wife has the same taste in women as I do.........

Chase

[desert rat]

my wife and are like to invite other people to play

[cypher5150]

I've been reading through this thread for a while not knowing whether to post or not (the ol' lady might read it :doh).
We've been together for almost four years. About a year ago she comes to me & says I have something to tell you & I don't know how you're gonna feel about it. So I try to compose myself to hear some really heavy crap. Basically I had to drag it out of her but she finally tells me shes bi but hadn't been with a woman for a long time. <insert evil grin> You guys know what I was thinking! So anyway, I can't just throw that out there because after all it could be just a "test" that women throw at us when we are not expecting it. I kept thinking no way because she used to get jealous of other girls...So then she asks me who I would want to have some fun with!! At that point I am thinking oh ya!! SET UP!! She wants to know who I want to get down with. So I take the safest way out & say I never thought about it & I have no clue. Then she starts throwing names out & before you know it I'm saying oh ya!! Hell ya!! etc etc... But of course, None of the ladies we know are bi or even curious. And one of her rules were that the girl would have to be just as interested in her as in me, so no one gets left out. Keep in mind that I've had offers before, When I was younger. But even then I ran away screaming like a little girl because I was afraid of the thought of two women at once & trying to satisfy both...I was intimidated bigtime! Fast forward back to last year.......We never found that perfect bi girl, But we did have a fun drunken night with a nympho friend of ours & did the deed. Turns out we both think our friend is a closet bi because boy did she do the lil lady good! But, it was just once...Still waiting for another chance. I have to say that my mind was all kinds of overwhelmed for about two weeks afterwards. My Ol' lady kept wanting to talk about the next day, clear the air or whatever but I wasn't ready. It blew my mind & I had to have time to get my thoughts straight. It all turned out ok, we eventually got to talk about it & we are all still friends, just no more "fun" since then.

[maritimer]

i have dated strippers, models and my ex wife often brought home girlfriends for evening entertainment after the kids went to sleep. the first 6 or 7 times they are fun but the novelty wears off unless you or they break out the really kinky stuff

[Gone]

so much pressure trying to please one woman. ide love to try two but there is no satisfaction guarantee...for them. im sure ide enjoy it.

Wait a minute, we are supposed to please the women.:doh

[mjbogrand]

A guy I worked with was talking about this one day
"My girl loves to eat at the Y,blah,blah,blah"
They would go to the local taverns and pic up the chicks.
Sure OK.
One day he says "Mygirl is bartending at the Riverside,let's go have a beer"

The next day the boss asked about her.
All I could say was,if I had to do one of them I would do Jimmy before his girl.:frownthre:spineyes

[G-man1965]

I been married for 17 years so the chances now are zero but in my younger single days almost.

[bud095]

Done that with two women in S.C. in a van in front of a bar...hella good time for all :laugh :smoke....wow! how much did that cost:laugh