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tonyhds
5th April 2005, 00:06
One year ago today, I rode my new 2 month old Sportster out to the Texas Motor Speedway to watch the Nascar race. I had attended every Nascar race at TMS since the track opened in 1997. This year was special, I was riding my brand new Sportster to the races !
It was a slightly cool morning when I left the house that Sunday morning about 7 am. It was a wonderfull Texas day, sunshine, blue skys and very little wind. I got to the track and they let motorcycles park in the very front row, a mere 50 ft from the gate in front of the section i was sitting in.
The race was great, seats were great, everything was perfect !
Soon as the race was over, I strapped my stuff to the bike, got my helmet on, and was out of there before the traffic could back up, which it does very quickly. There is no good way for 200,000 race fans to leave at one time.
In past years it took aprox. 3 hrs to get home from the 60 mile trip.
So I havn't stop smiling or grinning all day long, It was one of the best days ever at the nascar races. I pull into my driveway and noticed there sure are a lot of people and cars at our house. I pull into the garage, take off my helmet and ask my son whats going on ?
My son tells me that my step-daughter Shanna was found murdered around 8 am earlier the same day. She was 26 years old. She was found in a bad part of Dallas and was beaten to death, no doubt in the wrong place with the wrong people. My family had decided not to call me on my cell phone to give me the news, for fear of how upset I would be and riding the Sportster home in heavy traffic, and there would be nothing I could do the change the news.
So now devastated and shocked, I go inside and see my wife, Shanna's mother, and try to console her. My great day at the races and on my new Sportster in a heart beat turned into a parents worst nightmare.
You should never outlive your children, and as I refect on today, one year ago today, the details of that amazing day are so very happy and so amazingly sad. I hope Shanna is in a better place.
Her murder remains unsolved

Deicer18
5th April 2005, 00:18
My heart felt condolences to you and your family Tony. I don't know what it's like to lose a child, but I worry about my daughter every day. She lives in a terrible part of Memphis and chooses to live there because of her lifestyle (which I won't get into here). But she's 21 and has her own life to lead. If anything happens to her it will knock me for a loop. Please keep your faith and watch over your other family members. And keep the memories of your Step-Daughter. I'm sure that there are many fine memories.

mikeLI_77
5th April 2005, 00:21
I'm sorry to hear that tony. That's a real hard thing to happen to someone. I can only imagine what you must have gone through and still are. I hope they catch who did that to her and lock them up for ever. Hang in there and remember what goes around comes around. Whoever did that to your daughter will get theirs sooner or later. Deepest condolences to you and your family

TechRep
5th April 2005, 00:23
Oh Man... I have daughters. I don't know what I would do. This stuff rips my heart out!! I hope you both find peace, and I am sure Shanna is definitely in a better place. Your story really exemplifies the "bitter sweet" of life. It seems as if you have had your share of heartache, so I wish the best for both of you, and hopefully a little more of the “sweet”.
Ride safe,
Larry

pquirk
5th April 2005, 01:25
Hey Tony, that's a heart-wrenching story. My condolances to you and to your wife and kids. This is a sad anniversary, I hope you're all together on this occasion to comfort eachother. Take care.

Phil

tonyhds
5th April 2005, 03:08
Thanks for the kind words, while you never really get over a situation like this, it does get a little easier as time goes on. The times that i'm out riding,there is a sense of peacefullness. I'll be back to the race on my Sporty on April 17.

Deicer18
5th April 2005, 03:11
Good luck Buddy.

GOTWA
5th April 2005, 13:37
I am the father of two girls. God bless you friend.

Now don't go lettin' Gordon win at TMS. ;)

vetteguy
5th April 2005, 14:14
I cannot imagine the pain you and your wife are feeling. Sorry for your loss. Guy

klown
5th April 2005, 14:22
Hey buddy, sorry to hear about your news. I hope you can take solace in this place. We'll try everything we can do to help you get through this man.

Mountainrun
7th April 2005, 03:08
Tony I'm sorry there are scum that could do someting like that. Leave her a flower from me, next time you visit her resting place would ya. Your loss is our loss.