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14th April 2011
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Chief Know It All
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: SouthEast
Posts: 412 Sportster/Buell Model: 883 IRON/Now 1200 Iron Sportster/Buell Year: 09 Other Motorcycle Model: 100th Anniversary V-Rod Other Motorcycle Year: 03
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Originally Posted by Calvin
I've been right where you are. She wont quit until she wants to. But, then be prepared for a lifetime of "one drink away from disaster." That's, of course, if she really is an alcoholic. I'm not in anyway disparaging AA, addicts, etc.; all I'm saying is the partner really has to know what he/she is getting into and honestly ask himself/herself if they can live with it. My wife started out as a hard partier too. We were married for 9.5 years. The last three of which I supported her (financially, emotionally, etc.) through all sorts of detox, therapy, AA, etc. The last straw was when she met someone at an AA meeting and they ending up going to get drunk togther. Apparently I wanted her sobiety more than she did. We separated the next day.
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Sounds like someone I dated awhile back. It was to much for me, I already have children I wanted a relationship with an adult. That wasn't going to happen, to me she made her choice and I made mine. I'm not dating anyone now but maybe some day the right one will come along. I lost the best one! My wife to cancer 9 yrs ago.
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23rd October 2011
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Biker
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Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 1 Sportster/Buell Model: Sportster 883 Sportster/Buell Year: 2004
Reputation: 10
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Prepare yourself for some major drama when she starts nursing school it seems like everything goes crazy, she will have to pull herself together or she won't make it through nursing classes and clinical rotations. Maybe that will help her get her act together but it sounds more like the problem is that she disrespectful & inconsiderate.
Good luck
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23rd October 2011
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Biker
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Join Date: Jul 2011
Posts: 22 Sportster/Buell Model: XL1200N Sportster/Buell Year: 2011
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She comes home drunk and horny and wants a bit of action and you turf her out!?!
Look on the positive... She came home to you for the action!
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23rd October 2011
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Bike Builder
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Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Sheboygan, WI
Posts: 1,873 Sportster/Buell Model: FXR Sportster/Buell Year: 1994
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Originally Posted by Tobes
She comes home drunk and horny and wants a bit of action and you turf her out!?!
Look on the positive... She came home to you for the action!
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At this point, I could care less about that. The suffering ain't worth the poon.
Here's the funny part, it happened again last night. She's asleep on the couch cause I kicked her drunk lying ass out and I'm sick of this relationship. BTW, she ended up failing that clinical last spring and now she's taking it again this semester. |
23rd October 2011
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XL FORUM TEAM MEMBER
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Daytona Beach, FL
Posts: 1,837 Sportster/Buell Model: XL1200c Sportster/Buell Year: 2006
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Thanks for the update.
Dont they make a prescription that makes you intolerant of alcohol? Or at least a home brew remedy.
Its hard to get thru when they dont think they have a problem.
Good luck
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23rd October 2011
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XL FORUM TEAM MEMBER
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Southern New Jersey
Posts: 1,791 Sportster/Buell Model: XL1200C Sportster/Buell Year: 2007
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Cut her loose... no future in the bottom of a bottle. Don't let the holiday's soften you up. Stay strong and good luck.
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25th October 2011
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Flat Track Champion
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Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Southern Indiana
Posts: 629 Sportster/Buell Model: 883 Sportster/Buell Year: 1995
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Unless YOU change something you have this to look forward to for the rest of your life.
Fool me once... you know the rest.
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25th October 2011
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XL Forum Gold Supporting Vendor
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: Longmont, Colorado
Posts: 10,213 Sportster/Buell Model: 07 883 X2 plus 5 Buells Sportster/Buell Year: 2007 Sportster/Buell Model #2: 92 Sportster/Buell Year #2: 96 Other Motorcycle Model: and 2 more!!
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Matt,
I divorced my first wife for most of the same reasons. You are doing the right thing now. Don't wait till you are either married or have a kid with her to end it as it will be much harder then.
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