I just don't get women

[xtheunknown]

I just don't get women. I was seeing a woman and we had some dates and I went over to her house a few times for dinner. The last time I was there (just before Christimas) things seemed a bit strained and I wanted to talk to her alone (away from her teenaged daughter) so I asked her if she would walk me to my car. She abrubtly declined, so I said goodbye and left.

I took this as a sign that she wasn't interested in taking the relationship to the next level and did not call her again. I figured that eventually I would see her again and see what was up.

Fast forward to Wednesady when I was out riding and decided to stop by where she works (retail) and say hi. Man, what a mistake. She was really pissed at me! She asked me why I didn't call and I told her. Then she kept saying "So, what's up?" I took this as her inquiring about what was going on in my life, but it was really her asking why I had come to visit her.

Then she let in to me with a "How dare you not call me for 4 months and then come in and think everything is OK." lecture.

I have never had a woman who rejected me romatically be so mad at me if I tried to be friendly with her at a later time.

I'm not really looking for an explanation, I'm just venting.

[chrome]

I would say you are better off. Things go both ways, like her arm is broke and can't dial a phone...

[jalldredge]

Ahh, you know the deal. She just wanted to be "friends."

[bjfoien]

She made her bed.....Consider yourself lucky you got out when you did.

[snowman]

Sounds like you and Road Chick need to go for a ride together...

[lincoln1975]

RUN LIKE HELL MY FRIEND, maybe she is bi-polar, or just dont know what she wants, haha

[Prebs]

Ok being a chic. I don't know what her problem is. Why she wouldn't walk you to your car 4 months ago is beyond me. If you didn't get a good vibe from that you had every right not to call her. IF she felt she wanted more she could of called you. Phone rings both ways. her scene in the store where she works was just that a scene. trying to make you look like a dumbass. Don;t sweat it! you don't want to deal with someone like that.

[merc]

I don't get women either.
If I got 1 my wife would kill me.

Besides you are better off - you can ride when you want

[XLFREAK]

Probably best to stay out of any further relationship with her. Sounds shaky at best..... BTW, if you ever actually figure out women --to the point where you begin to understand their meanings and what they actually want; you will be in a very elite group of men numbering less than 10, since the dawn of civilization.

[883rnh]

Dude run for the hills. She has Issues!