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View Poll Results: Ever been involved in any of these?
Swinging, other couple/s. 47 15.02%
Threesome, two males and a female 75 23.96%
Threesome, two gals and one male 119 38.02%
Open committed relationship 17 5.43%
No, not interested 87 27.80%
No, but I'd give it a shot. 70 22.36%
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Old 20th June 2008
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You never know the answer to that question (whether or not you'd both be into it) until you're there.

As for friends, it depends on the friends.

Some people use AFF (Adult Friend Finder).

Though it sometimes seems that there are a lot of older couples that are into it, I think there are a number of younger couples too.

Some people also would suggesty you consider a trip, like to Hedonism or something like that because it can be easier in a setting away from home.
I've looked into all of the above. Its just been something thats been floating around without making any serious effort into making it happen... Hedo would be a blast, but there's a lot of time and money involved with that one. I think its one of those things that if it happens, it does, if not, then it doesn't...
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from what i see in my town, the traditional relationship is gone. just hook ups and swinging. there are a few looking for something more i am sure, just none that i can see. my friends will hit anything that can walk and some that crawl. so there are willing partners for anything you just have to adjust your standards....
only two of my friends have a "normal" relationship. the rest swing, slide, and play in the sand box.

it might just be me, but if i was into the swinging/hook up thing, i would need to see a clean bill of health prior to any "hook up".

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You never know the answer to that question (whether or not you'd both be into it) until you're there.

As for friends, it depends on the friends.

Some people use AFF (Adult Friend Finder).

Though it sometimes seems that there are a lot of older couples that are into it, I think there are a number of younger couples too.

Some people also would suggesty you consider a trip, like to Hedonism or something like that because it can be easier in a setting away from home.
HMMMM!!! Kev seems to know quite a bit about a lot of things, I wouldn't have guesed that he knew that much about this though

I gotta vote with ReddTigger when he said "you forgot....

I can neither confirm nor deny ...............................

Cuz that's what I'd pick ..>> wink <<.. "
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I think its pretty interesting that over 50% have or are interested in this kind of stuff.

Sign of the times? I wonder how thats changed through the decades...
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I've heard a few conversations about the whole Swingtown show.
Alot of people think that stuff doesn't go on anymore.
But all I can say is thats completely wrong.
But I don't part take in any kind of that stuff.
But I have known a few that did.
And in this day and age with so many people doing so many different things, it can be VERY hazardous to your health.

Fun, but dangerous.
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Funny to hear how many people "have friends that...." or "heard about these folks that...", makes you wonder when 95% say that but no one actually is that friend....just sayin'...
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I was talking to a friends long term g/f at his birthday party (she had had a few and he was wasted) and she said that she wanted to get another girl and he didn't. He thinks its cheating, blah blah... but the suprising part was that she wanted to because she is outwardly very straight laced and you wouldn't think she was "the type".
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I was talking to a friends long term g/f at his birthday party (she had had a few and he was wasted) and she said that she wanted to get another girl and he didn't. He thinks its cheating, blah blah... but the suprising part was that she wanted to because she is outwardly very straight laced and you wouldn't think she was "the type".
Some people want to be nudged into waving their freak flag.
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had to put up my freak flag...... people started heckeling me.
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Sign of ... all time. People have been making non-committal whoopee since the appearance of penises and vaginas. Hooking up, swinging, !!!! buddies ... nothing new. The Internet brought a larger base of people so it now seems normal.
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