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19th October 2011
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Senior Chief Harley Engineer 1st Class
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Sin City
Posts: 1,303 Sportster/Buell Model: 1200 Chopster Sportster/Buell Year: 2008 Sportster/Buell Model #2: Buell XB1200STT Sportster/Buell Year #2: 2007
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Girl broke up with me... Still miserable weeks later...
So i was single for years... Moved to Vegas and been having the time of my life! Ride everyday, workout, drink, hang with buddies, travel and generally live an awesime life. Been with quite a few woman here in Vegas and never wanted or looked for a relationship. But then i met this rad woman who was extremely gorgous, fun, and generally blew me away. We dated for a couple months because i was wary of vegas woman. Well she liked me and we decided to be official. Well everything is fine for awhile. Thing is she had a kid, recently divorced and had two beautiful roomates who are now single who love going out all week. I never had any issues with her going out with her friends and dancing in clubs and so on. Well at on of the local bars they do a bikini contest for money. Well her roomates convinced her to do it with them. She placed third and i was stoked for her. Thing is, this bikini contest became a weekly thing. The first couple times i didbt mind, but after awhile it started to bother me. Why does she need the attention like that and doing it for money. So i tried to tell her i didnt mind the contest but doing it every week for money was stripperish. Well she broke up with me after that conversation. Now i cant go to my fav bars because i dont want to run into her. I really liked her and now its been two weeks and i still cant get over it. I ride, wrench, workout, hang with buddies, other woman, but i cant get her off my mind. This is horrible...
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19th October 2011
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XL FORUM TEAM MEMBER
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: South Western Ontario
Posts: 3,976 Sportster/Buell Model: XL 1200 R Sportster/Buell Year: 2007 Sportster/Buell Model #2: Buell Uly (sold) Sportster/Buell Year #2: 2009 Other Motorcycle Model: 2010 Ural Patrol(sold)
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That sucks, if the contest really wasn't a deal breaker, then talk to her about it.
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19th October 2011
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JESTER MAFIA
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Indian Territory
Posts: 9,131 Sportster/Buell Model: NRHS 1250-R Sportster/Buell Year: 2005
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Go wherever you want. Who cares if you run into her? Don't stop living your life because of some gal...pull yer head out. 
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19th October 2011
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Senior Chief Master Mechanic 1st Class
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Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Southern Maryland
Posts: 1,216 Sportster/Buell Model: 883 sportster Sportster/Buell Year: 2006
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Sounds like she went through a life change and was probably looking for an excuse to be single. It happens, don't let it ruin your life. Doesn't sound like it was a terribly long relationship, dodge the bars for a while and you will get over her. Sounds stripperish to me too, btw, you're probably better off.
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19th October 2011
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Senior Chief Harley Engineer
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 1,063 Sportster/Buell Model: XL1200N Sportster/Buell Year: 2008
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what is it youre worried about if you see her? having to talk to her? her ignoring you? seeing her with another guy? i think we've all been there but remember if its not her there will be another whether its soon or 10 years from now. maybe think about if thats really what bothered her or if thats just an excuse. to me it sounds like it ended too easy but then again i dont know either of you
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19th October 2011
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XLF Enforcer.
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Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: The Electric City, NY
Posts: 1,050 Sportster/Buell Model: XL 883N Sportster/Buell Year: 2010 Other Motorcycle Model: Kawasaki Other Motorcycle Year: 2001
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If shes got a kid she shouldnt be doing that kinda stuff anymore...Time for her to grow up and raise her kid....sounds like she was doing that till the whole stripper bikini thing came about...
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19th October 2011
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Senior Chief Harley Engineer
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 1,063 Sportster/Buell Model: XL1200N Sportster/Buell Year: 2008
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one other thing ive found that helps is helping other people.. forcing yourself to think about another person in need..could be anything from donating time to a senior home focusing on a friend or family member that needs help. doesnt need to be just that stuff but i think you get what im saying. i know your in the military. maybe helping vets somehow or their families?
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19th October 2011
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Join Date: May 2011
Location: Irwin, Pennsylvania
Posts: 4,588 Sportster/Buell Model: Hammer 1250 Hugger Sportster/Buell Year: 1997
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Move on and don't look back. Life's too short.
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: cordova, tn
Posts: 12,643 Sportster/Buell Model: xl1218rr turbo Sportster/Buell Year: 1993
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You need to live your life and not worry if you run into her. I would never let anyone steel my joy or life. She may need the attention because of the things that happened before you met and one day she will either get over it or not. It is easy money and she may need it. Who knows, you probably figured out using the word stripperish to a girlfriend is not a good idea. There are lots of great women out there and one will be right for you. This is not meant to be and be glad that you did not have more invested in it.
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19th October 2011
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Flat Track Champion
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Cowtown
Posts: 601 Sportster/Buell Model: Nightster Sportster/Buell Year: 2008 Sportster/Buell Model #2: Nightster Sportster/Buell Year #2: 2007
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Let her go. Obviously she isn't ready for an adult relationship. If she flips out because you tell her how you feel.......????? She wasn't the one for you. Chalk it up to experience.
And Ralph is right....... stripperish IS a poor choice of words..........chalk that up to experience too
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